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As men, we often hear about what is manly or masculine. How a real man is suppose to be.
Maybe we heard it from our father and his friends who told us what a real man is or does. We may have heard it from women around us. About what they think a real man is - what is attractive to them.
This can trigger our primal drive to fit in and we shut down parts of ourselves so we can be good "real men" and be accepted.
Maybe we were silenced and shamed when we were angry or expressed lust and so we suppress our desires and our inner warriors.
It can cause us to shut down our sexuality, our anger & aggressiveness (which doesn't always have to be a bad thing) so we are not seen as too much or scary.
Maybe we were told to “man up” when we are down or sad, so then we put a lid on our feelings.
It can lead to shutting down our softer side, which wants to be open, forgiving, show emotions, be seen and heard for who we really are, as this is perceived as "weak" or too feminine.
Our value then becomes all about how much we are needed, how much we are wanted, how much we achieve, how successful we are, how much we earn, how well we take care of our family. How good we are at being "real men".
But what if everything we've been told about "real men" isn't true?
What can be missing in this picture of ourselves that we have been force-fed, is that all that information is opinions and perceptions OTHERS have, based on THEIR experiences, upbringing, social context and perception of masculinity.
Think about it…being a "real man" does not come with a checklist for how all men should be. But rather means being satisfied with yourself, your body, your value, your personality, your feelings & your passions in a way that is right for YOU!
What if you could get whatever you want in life and in your relationships just through that? Without accomplishing anything? without proving anything first? Simply by being you, fully.
Do you want to find your purpose and direction in life?
Do you want to be completely happy with yourself as you are?
Want to learn how to have a productive outlet for your anger?
Do you want to be a supreme lover who makes your partner melt and want more sex and intimacy with you than you ever dreamed of?
Do you want a better relationship with other men, your brothers?
Do you want to learn to set clear boundaries and feel stronger self respect?
Do you want to explore how to be more playful and have more ease & fun in your life? Find out what you're really in to, what makes you tick?
Do you feel it's time to redefine what a real man is to you? So you can get the most out of your life and relationships?
Then this retreat is for YOU!
My name is Mats and I hold this retreat for men, because I’m tired of seeing my brothers hurting in silence when I know the change can be made. I have over 20 years experience in personal development, codependency, addiction and sex & relationships. I have held and assisted several men's groups, tantra courses etc. I myself made a big journey - from feeling like a puppy who always did everything to fit in, both in relation to women, at work and with family, which made me completely lose myself and my identity. To feeling calm & secure in myself, knowing my desires and boundaries and speaking them with confidence, leading to all my relationships becoming better beyond what I could have imagined.
Linda will hold some lectures and exercises were you get to learn more about the feminine to better understand the dynamics between you and female partners.
SAID ABOUT THE RETREAT
“This weekend will go down in history as the most revolutionary & life changing experiences I’ve EVER had. To have the honor to meet you all as equals, as friends, as brothers. To feel such trust and confidence for you both and the process thats happening. To get to experience everything from honesty, vulnerability, humility, fear, grief, joy, depth, fellowship and above all the enormous and genuine POWER we all carry inside us! With your help, with your support, with you having my back I could - for the first time in my life - find a real connection with and fully express the anger that had protected my heart for so long. With you as my pillars I was FINALLY able to break that part of my armour and what remains now is to calmly clean up all the rubble and allow love to fully take it’s rightful place. My gratitude towards you all knows no boundaries.”
“Thank you for the wonderful Men’s retreat you held this weekend!
Ever since I met my lovely man I have sensed that there lives a powerful lion within him, but I have only seen glimpses of it. In brief moments, it’s has flickered by in his eyes only to vanish. It has made me excited to see that it’s there, and sad to see it disappear again since I know he would feel so much better in life if he was able to access that strength and masculinity inside himself. And so off he went to your retreat and when he walked through the door this last sunday it wasn’t my man that came home. It was my lion. Thank you!”
SOME CONTENT FROM THE COURSE
Exercises to improve personal development, communication & relationships
Conversation/sharing
Learning about sex/Intimacy
Brotherhood/Bonding
Learning about masculine/feminine energies
The importance of polarity in romantic relationships
The importance of presence
Hot tub & pool available for relaxing
INVESTMENT
SEK 5,200 in a double room
Single room available for an extra fee
Including all meals for the whole weekend by our personal chef.
(For businesses, add taxes 25%)
Registration fee of SEK 1,000 is paid upon registration and is not refunded in case of cancellation.
CLAIM YOUR SPOT
By clicking the button below and marking the email MN men + your name, then pay the registration fee of 1000:- to SWISH 1233781390 or request an invoice in the email.
Looking forward to see you!
Mats & Linda